Chastity Keyholding: The Ultimate Guide to Female Domination

Mistress Envy’s services include providing a professional keyholder to hold the keys to your chastity device securely. As an experienced dominatrix, Mistress is well-versed in BDSM and power exchange—experience tantalising tease and denial sessions through our online keyholding service. I also offer chastity and submissive training to help you fully embrace your desires.

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A Brief History of Chastity:

The concept of chastity dated back centuries when it was often associated with religious devotion and purity. However, over time, it has evolved into a fetish and form of consensual BDSM play between adults. Male chastity involves using a device that prevents a man from becoming fully erect or experiencing sexual release, effectively placing control of their sexual pleasure in the hands of their partner or dominant.

I offer long-term real-time chastity and distance keyholding. I will write up a contract between the two of us, and this is agreed between us, but of course, as the Pro Domme, the final say is mine.

Chastity Keyholding

You can be locked in person, or we can have an online arrangement with Skype check-in. Every key holder experience is individual and tailor-made. So don’t fear; you do not need to be based in the South West UK, such as myself. Those outside Devon, Bristol, and Somerset can also share this experience.

Custom Chastity Contract

Mistress Envy will create a unique custom chastity agreement, the contract. This written agreement can be one with physical keys being held by Mistress or held by the submissive; in this case, the distance contract is based upon the submissive’s willpower and desire to serve Mistress well.

Great trust and temptation are available to you. You must follow the rules in the custom chastity contract to avoid punishment, which can be humiliation, physical punishment, mundane tasks (such as writing out 1000 lines), or anything that the Mistress deems suitable chastisement.

An example follows if the submissive is a keyholder; The keys are to be placed in a sealed envelope; you will sign the envelope across the seal and send dated and timed photos of the envelope in the every other day report.

  • I have been known to control what adult material you access during your forced sexual abstinence.
  • I have a range of punishments both suitable to distance and session play. Should you feel the need to disobey.

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Tease and denial is incredibly individual. For you it could be a test of willpower and self restraint. Or perhaps a true physical test straining against the locked cock cage.

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I enjoy tormenting a slave through his device, and this is especially fun when combined with cuckold sessions. Cock cage purchase costs are not included in the tribute payable to Mistress for this incredible experience.

But I can’t wear a cock cage?

This depends on why you believe this. Are you fearful of store detection and airport security? Do you attend the gym regularly and fear a cage is too cumbersome? Perhaps you have a partner.

None of the above prevents long-term chastity. Different device materials can be used, and on-and-off removal periods can be written into the contract, with no sexual contact or release necessarily allowed during such times. Having a partner can also be worked around as a mental state of chastity, task and punishment.

Embracing the Art of Male Chastity in the UK

A Beginners Guide:

While male chastity might seem like a taboo BDSM subject to some, it’s a niche fetish that has gained significant traction in recent years, especially in the UK. For those curious about this fascinating kink, this blog post aims to shed light on the world of male chastity and its unique appeal. So, buckle up, grab a cuppa, and dive into the tantalising realm of male chastity.

The Rise of Male Chastity in the UK:

In recent years, the UK has seen a significant increase in interest in male chastity, thanks in part to the power of the internet and social media. Online communities have provided a safe space for people to explore their fetishes and kinks, and male chastity is no exception. With an abundance of forums, blogs, and even online shops dedicated to male chastity, it’s no wonder the practice is gaining popularity.

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The Allure of Male Chastity:

For many, the appeal of male chastity lies in the submission, the thrill of giving up control, and the vulnerability that comes with it. The dominant partner, often called the “keyholder,” is in charge of when, where, and how the submissive can experience pleasure. This power dynamic can lead to heightened intimacy and trust between partners.

Moreover, proponents of male chastity often report that the anticipation of eventual release makes the pleasure even more intense when it finally occurs. The wait and the build-up of desire can lead to an incredibly satisfying release, making the entire experience worth the wait.

Chastity keyholding can be a very empowering experience for both partners. For the submissive partner, it can be a way to express their trust and submission to their dominant partner. For the dominant partner, it can be a way to feel in control and enjoy the power of giving or withholding sexual pleasure.

The Benefits of Chastity Keyholding

There are many benefits to chastity keyholding, both for the submissive partner and the dominant partner. Some of the benefits include:

  • Increased intimacy and trust: Chastity keyholding can help to increase intimacy and trust between partners. By agreeing to wear a chastity device, the submissive partner makes a visible and tangible commitment to their dominant partner. This can help to build trust and strengthen the relationship.
  • Increased arousal and excitement: Chastity keyholding can also increase arousal and excitement for both partners. The constant reminder of their chastity can be a source of continuous arousal for the submissive partner. For the dominant partner, the power to give or withhold sexual pleasure can be a source of excitement.
  • Increased control and discipline: Chastity keyholding can allow dominant partners to exercise control and discipline over their submissive partners. By controlling when and how their partner can orgasm, dominant partners can help to train their partners in obedience and submission.

Male Chastity Devices:

The market for male chastity devices is booming in the UK, with various options to suit every taste and budget. From simple silicone cages to more elaborate custom-made devices crafted from stainless steel or titanium, there’s a chastity device for everyone. When choosing a device, comfort, safety, and hygiene should be top priorities.

Getting Started with Male Chastity:

Communication is vital if you want to explore the world of male chastity. It’s essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and concerns. Start slowly, and experiment with short periods before gradually increasing the duration of wear.

As with any kink or fetish, consent and safety should always come first. Both partners should feel comfortable and excited about the experience, and it’s essential to have a plan in place for emergencies, such as a safe word or a spare key.

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Chastity devices are designed to prevent a wearer from engaging in sexual activity or achieving sexual release. They come in various forms and materials, each catering to different preferences and needs. Let’s delve deeper into the types of chastity devices available and some important factors to consider when selecting one.

Types of Chastity Devices:

  1. Male Chastity Devices (Cages or Tubes): These devices encase the penis, preventing erections and sexual release. There are two primary styles of male chastity devices:

a. Chastity Cages: These consist of a ring that fits around the base of the penis and testicles, with a cage-like structure that encloses the penis. Cages are typically more breathable and allow for easier cleaning.

b. Chastity Tubes: These are similar to cages but feature a tube-like design that encloses the penis instead. They offer a more discreet and sleek appearance but may be less breathable than cages.

  1. Female Chastity Devices (Belts or Girdles): These devices are designed to prevent vaginal or clitoral stimulation. Female chastity devices typically consist of a belt or girdle that fits around the waist, with a shield or plate that covers the genital area.


Chastity devices are made from a variety of materials, each with its own set of advantages and disadvantages:

  1. Plastic or Polycarbonate: These devices are lightweight, affordable, and suitable for beginners. They are also airport-friendly and less likely to set off metal detectors. However, they may be less durable and secure than metal devices.
  2. Silicone: Silicone devices are soft, flexible, and comfortable to wear for extended periods. They are hypoallergenic and easy to clean. However, they may not provide the same level of security as rigid materials and can be more prone to wear and tear.
  3. Stainless Steel: Steel devices are durable, secure, and easy to clean. They offer a high level of confinement and are ideal for long-term wear. However, they can be heavy, more expensive, and may not be suitable for those with metal allergies.
  4. Titanium: Titanium devices are lightweight, strong, and hypoallergenic. They provide a good balance between the comfort of silicone and the security of stainless steel. However, they can be quite expensive.

Selecting a Chastity Device:

When choosing a chastity device, consider the following factors:

  1. Comfort: A comfortable device is crucial for long-term wear. Ensure it fits well, without causing irritation, chafing, or discomfort.
  2. Security: The device should be secure enough to prevent unauthorized removal or tampering. This is especially important in BDSM dynamics, where the submissive’s inability to access their genitals is a key aspect of the experience.
  3. Hygiene: The device should be easy to clean and allow for proper airflow, to maintain good hygiene and prevent infections.
  4. Discretion: If you plan to wear the device in public, opt for a design that is discreet and unnoticeable under clothing.
  5. Price: Chastity devices can range from affordable to quite expensive, so consider your budget when making a decision.


Male chastity is a fascinating and unique power exchange fetish that has found a growing audience in the UK. Promoting trust, communication, and heightened intimacy between partners offers an exciting way to explore power dynamics and submission in a consensual, safe environment. So, if you’re intrigued by the world of male chastity, why not give it a go and see if it adds an extra spark to your relationship?

Remember, it’s essential to discuss using a chastity device with your partner or Domme, establish boundaries, and have a plan for emergencies. Experiment with different devices and durations to find what works best for you and your dynamic.

Are you ready to embark on a thrilling journey of control and submission? Submit to Mistress Envy today and unlock a world of pleasure you never thought possible.

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